A little of my personal thoughts...

No one would be able to REALLY understand the emotional aspect of why decisions are made and even the pain she has to go through…….nor the dilemma she faces and the amount of effort she had put through to fight her inner self...

Yepper….you wouldn’t know how it felt until you are involved in it... !!!! Many people tend to think that a bystander's or 3rd party's point of view tend to see a clearer picture…well, yeah, maybe it is true…realistically but not emotionally….

It’s totally easy to judge a person merely based on what you see/gather from the outer... but internally, DO you know what is truly going on???? It is easy to pinpoint a relationship and blame it on "the person" you think is at fault... but maybe…if you sit back for a second to contemplate that person’s reasons….then you might realize that she actually had valid reasons….and doesn’t deserve anything that is thrown at her just because of one mistake she made...

My honest opinion, I don’t think it’s appropriate for ANYONE to judge someone else’s relationship, who is at fault or whether she deserve whatever that is coming cause after all we are not the one involved in it...

I guess having gone through the many ups and downs especially when relationship is concerned made me realize that not everything is what you think, see or know, there would be of courze some emotional factors to consider and not all things are visible. I do believe that everything happens for a reason and behind a person, there is always an untold story that no one knows except for the person herself... Even if you were to put yourself in her shoes and said that you will never do it, it’s still not fair cuz you are DEFINITELY not her... you are you... the stories and chapters in your life are completely different from the owner's...

So before you judge anyone and say that you couldn’t understand or that she deserves it, perhaps you should sit back and think of how to be there for her instead...

NIGHTY-NIGHT!