Yepper....I've learned that life is not about the tangible materials in life. There is so much more...all the fun discoveries of places, people, knowledge and culture. How our presence on earth is meant for another. Life is an ongoing process of finding our path to self-actualization which I am currently enjoying the wild and rocky ride.

I have a loving FATHER in heaven who I can always rely on and a solid comfort provider, a great fam-n-friends who support all my endeavors, loving dearie who gives me everything I need and desires.....yeah...I may not be mega-rich, extremely beautiful, extremely thin or live a decadent lifestyle. But I can sincerely and appreciative say this.. I'm blessed :)))))

The Ex-Files

What do you with the stuff from your former love-of-ur-life? LOL....Burn it all? Shove it all in the deepest, darkest corner of your closet? Put it in a bin in your garage? Dump it all in your local garbage bin? Leave everything as is? What do you do?

I know this one gal...who keeps a shoebox worth of each ot her exes' for memory....I know someone else (a dude) who gets rid of everything entirely, unless it was something practical (like digital photos n exes' love emails), printed out photos,cards, gifts, etc, gets thrown out.

What would be considered "healthy"? Healthy for you emotionally and for your future, that is.

For me I do understand the importance of remembering the good times...but sometimes I do really wonder if it should all just be left a memory...so one can starts anew.

How else can you really give your heart to someone who is really meant to have it? I was cleaning out the TH prior to ther renovation and inevitably ran into some old pictures/letters/cards/etc from the one of my past. I'm with someone new now, of which, I completely adore. Since I have no use for this old stuff. I wanted to throw it away... but there was a moment when my heart didn't want me to....weird huh???? WHY? I have this pang of memories running through my head then it just kinda evolved into closure...isn't it kinda weird...reading old cards made me feel a sense of closure?

Okay. Sure. I gathered what I could and placed it in an old shoebox. It's weird though because I don't wanna keep it, but at the same time, I'm hesitant to throw it away. I kinda wanna tape it up, and let it sail across the sea (or something ridiculous like that). Just let the good times float around I guess. I figure when I have to re-sort things back to the TH when it is all completed...I will end up for sure to throw it away..............one thing's for sure. I feel the sense of closure about the things that happened..........some time ago :))))

Dun hv much 2 say since I pretty much hv abandoned this blog for FB.....

To...LPG - I'm NEVER a huge fan of sugar-coated words. Don't waste ur time...

I'm finding happy-in-my-ness, and that is the whole beauty... ;)